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  • Dec 21, 2009, 09:51 AM
    lesli
    Me and my boyfriend argue a lot for stupidities , will we last ?
    Me and my boyfriend always argue . If is not for one thing its for another . We've been together for 1 year and we love each other very much . We've gone through so much and yet we still together. But he has anger issues and I take a lot of it when we argue . We fight at least every two days .

    I know when your in love your suppose to take certain things but sometimes I think I take a little bit too much .
    It stresses me out day and night when we argue...
    And I'm to young to be stressing...

    I don't know what to do..

    Try to make it work like how we done in the past and wish for the time to come..
    Or take a break and think stuff over...

    I don't know...
  • Dec 21, 2009, 09:53 AM
    redhed35
    What ages are you both?

    It would seem that there is no communication between you.
  • Dec 21, 2009, 10:22 AM
    talaniman

    You might think your so in love, but neither of you has the skills to not fight, and you seem to be doing all the work while dealing with his issues. But he is not! Not very healthy type of love from the way I see it.

    After being together for a year, you have made very little progress toward communications and working together, mainly because you put up with his crap, and stay with him, inviting more crap from him.

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    me and my boyfriend argue a lot for stupidities , will we last ?
    I seriously doubt it. You already need to leave and think this over without his influence, but a clean break might be your best course of action.
  • Dec 21, 2009, 10:54 AM
    amicon
    You sound very young and unhappy. I think its time you take some 'metime' and figure out what you want from life.
    Take care.
  • Dec 21, 2009, 10:29 PM
    Jake2008

    I agree it is time to take a break, and spend some time on your own.

    If you are arguing every two days, and he's got anger issues that are taken out on you, that affects everything you do, as you're finding out.

    Nobody needs that kind of stress from another.

    It is possible that counselling might help; it is unlikely that you are the only one he treats this way, or has treated this way.

    A few stress free weeks will do you the world of good.
  • Sep 1, 2011, 02:26 PM
    Monica15
    Deleted for chat/text, the worst grammar and spelling, and being impossible to understand!!!!!!

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