My father passed away recently. My mother has survived him but she is incapacitated. I am the executor of their estate/trust. It is a sizable estate and I would like to gift funds to my brothers and their families. My father appointed my mother as his power of attorney and never updated it. Can I gift being the executor while my mom is alive but incapacitated? I hope this has been explained clearly. As the executor can I gift to myself and my family?
Thanks