Did I come off as helpful?
Well me and my best friend of like 4 years now were sitting down talking the other day. She is 17 and dating an older guy just like me but I am legal. But the thing is she told me something that he said but I didn't know what to tell her. She told him how she felt and about some things that she found out about him that he himself tell her and his reply was that he wish that she would have waited and let him tell her on his own time and he wanted to wait until she turned 18 and until they both were serious before he let her meet everybody else in the family and that she knew that he loved her and that he wasn't going anywhere and that she hurt his feelings with the way she came off with her words. I, myself am not too good with advice but I told her that if he felt that way then he could have said that from the beginning before the first time they had intercourse if he felt that way and I told her to just keep her guard up and not to fall too deep just lay low until her birthday rolls around and if he reniged on his word then just to drop him. From a male point of view how do you see? From a female point of view would you have told your best friend the same?