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  • Dec 15, 2009, 12:55 PM
    noobbuilder2000
    Confused with a girl
    Ok I am 17 and I still go to high school and I am still young I know but theirs this one girl in my gym who kept looking at me with her friend and talk about me and stuff and my friends told me. So I decided one day to talk to her so I did and it started pretty well and she started to sit with me every morning waiting to go to class. I started liking her a lot since we texted a lot and talked a lot I walked her to class bunch of other stuff. Blah blah blah. Would give me hugs and I would like rap my hand around her waist and when I didn't she would get upset. So I asked her out and she said maybe, and I was confused so I didn't say anything and we continued what we were doing. After 2 weeks I asked her again she said maybe. She had an ex but they would break up and get back together a lot. She says she mad or hate him and ignores his messeges then when he says I can't deal with it no more and stuff she starts talking to him. I told her to make up her mind and do what she thinks is right. Its been like a month and 2 weeks.
    Lately she stopped texting me as much and stuff so I just stopped and wanted to see if she would text me and she did.
    Iam confused out of my mind I don't know if she likes me or is just like using me in some sort of way can someone like give me a tip or something.
  • Dec 15, 2009, 01:35 PM
    MsMewiththat

    It's very possible that she is still emotionally involved with her ex. Give it time and be a friend. It's important to not limit yourself to this girl even though you really like her. The thing with her is that you have tried and she has not been completely direct with her response. Try asking out another girl and keep yourself busy. Your young, don't spend too much time being hung up on this situation.
  • Dec 15, 2009, 09:09 PM
    noobbuilder2000

    True but like she asked me to go to catlion (like prom but in winter) with her and stuff and she like kind of acts like my girlfriend. She told me she likes me. So you think I should just stop what I am doing and be her friend. Or do what I do and see what happens.

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