We have been dating for 5 years now, but we never had time to disscuss anything with my boyfriend. All what he can demand is to have sex.when I am asking him to have a chat he always postphone the date. Now I keep wondering if he is just with me for granted.

Doesn't sound like he takes you seriously. Stand up for yourself. If he can't provide you what you want, then find someone else who will.

Don't give him what he wants if he can't give you what you want.

Five years and no real communication? Time to move on.

How did you put up with his behavior for 5 years, incredible!! But dumb.