I can't tell if my boyfriend is just being friendly with my friend or if he is actually flirting. (he is 16 and I'm 15). It has been bugging me because they seem to get along well when we all hang out and they joke around with each other too. He is a really nice guy and is friendly to everyone like that, but it seems like he is a little more comfortable talking to that one friend of mine. So I wanted to know what signs to look out for because I don't want to seem possesive/like I'm overreacting if it's nothing to worry about. I've had relationships in the past were my jerky bf's flirted with my friends and it sucked, but this guy seems very sweet, because I'm pretty much his first actual relationship (1 other one he had was 2 years ago and he didn't even hang with the girl). So I don't know if I'm just being super sensitive about him just being friendly with no other intentions. :] all right thank you!

You might know by asking your friend how she interprets it.

Okay! I'll try that out, thank you!

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Originally Posted by sarah1819

okay! i'll try that out, thank you!

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No problem, glad I could help.

If your friend doesn't see it as being flirty behavior, then he may just be a nice friendly fellow. Guess you need to give him the benefit of the doubt until you see otherwise. :)

If he looks at her in a nicer way than he looks at you.If he is hardly talkng to you and if he keeps talking to her stay close to him and keep an eye out for him.

Yes agreed! I'm sure your friend will understand if you just talk to her. :)

This is happing to me too. I see that my friend keeps flirting with my dating partner . I hate it so much I just want to leave him because I am not the type to fight for him and if I do ask him or her about it it'll break the relationship so I have to keep one . I don't know what to do it hurts me soooo much . With all the other problems like being homeless , not having supportive family of 12 and stuff I just want to kill myself .

My boyfriend and best friend are doing the same thing to me it seems he talks to her more than me he's really funny and sweet but he always shows a lot of attention towards her she said she could never date him me and him have been dating for 10 months and before we started dating he liked her she is the kind of girl all the guys like and Is a show off I don't know what to say to him or her it drives me crazy too though your not the only one