I know a lot of you are going to read this and think I'm stupid but people do stupid things when they are in love and the heart will not truly let go until it is ready... ive been dating this guy for some time.. we hit it off well and he says he loves me.. wants to marry me.. have kids the whole 9... called his mother up and had her talk to me and told her this is the girl I'm going to marry... so I find out yesterday that he has another fiancé... who he has been seeing off and on for 5 years... I was devastated.. now for reasons I'm not sure about.. his mother knows nothing of this girl.. he says he loves me.. and he loves her.. and he doesn't know what to do... so what can I do to keep him?or is it a lost cause