Hi all just after some advice,

I started seeing a guy I really like,he has 3 children to 2 different women we have been seeing each other for 2 and a half months and he has already told me he loves me,I don't have a problem with this even though I don't feel the same way which I have tol him, his friends and people that know of him have told me that he falls in love at the drop of a hat and he is very possesive should I be worried?

I would take what these people are telling you in consideration. Having some insight from people who know him is very useful. If you want to continue seeing him, I would tell him you want to take it very slowly. This will help you see things for yourself before you get too serious.

Worried about what,
So you don't love him, just be sure he knows and keep communication open.

His idea of "love" and yours may not be the same thing

I would believe them. I would also be cautious, because he already has enough babies, and babies mamas.

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Originally Posted by sabrewolfe

I would take what these people are telling you in consideration. Having some insight from people who know him is very useful. If you want to continue seeing him, I would tell him you want to take it very slowly. This will help you see things for yourself before you get too serious.

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Great response sabrewolfe.

You didn't say how long you've been seeing him. If it's been a while and you still don't feel love toward him, then I'd leave him. Don't stay with anyone out of obligation. Don't you deserve to find someone that you love desperately? Doesn't your boyfriend deserve that same thing? :o

We have only been together 2 and a half months but he tells me he has never felt this way about anyone before, yet these people tell me he falls in love fast

I would be very cautious. You're already worried, otherwise you wouldn't be asking a question in this forum

Two children by two different women, declarations of love after 2 months , friends saying he's possessive.

He's got lots of 'form' and heaps of baggage. I'd steer clear of involvement and keep it real casual.

I'm sure you can do better than this.

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Originally Posted by racheal85

we hav only been 2gether 2 and a half months but he tells me he has never felt this way bout anyone b4, yet these people tell me he falls in love fast

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I bet that's what he told the 2 women before you as well , take it slow and see if you develop the same feelings , what's the rush?

I'd be very cautious-I think you're being played-big time.