My mom has been treating me like dirt for the past few years, it has been really bad this year. She usually seems nice but every few days she gets mad at me for no reason. I try and keep good grades in school, but say if I miss an assignment, or forgot to turn something in, SHE GOES NUTS! And when I try to explain things to her and she won't listen! I've kept my cool, but I seriously have had it! If I get mad at HER, it will make things worse, and anything I do nice for her, I rarely even get a thank you! She is always blaming ME for the problems we have, I'm not saying all of it is her fault, I'm saying that I don't have much to do with it! What do I do!!

So you miss doing school assisgnments and don't turn in all of your school work?

Why do you do this ? I have to say yes as a parent my kids would have had to deal with the results of not doing their jobs

Maybe she has a lot on her plate. First things first, do your homework, and try to make good grades. Not just for her, but for yourself. The smarter you are, the further in life you will go.

Try to lighten her load by helping out around the house. So what if she doesn't give you credit for now, at least she won't have that particular thing to worry about. And she might have a better attitude.

I'd be willing to bet she would give you a lung and maybe her heart if you needed it. No one will love you like your mother. And that's a fact.

No matter what, you treat her with respect. When you get older, and have kids of your own, you will see the responsibilities in life. And how tough it is to make ends meet.

Good luck, and go study.

Sounds like my mom, haha.
BIG DEAL IF SHE MISSES SOME SCHOOLWORK, she will be the one who pays for it. There is such thing as encouragement and good parenting and not just yelling and flipping out when you are mad. You don't deserve to feel like , but getting mad is not the answer. It snowballs into a horrible situation. Maybe consider asking your school counselor if you can do group counseling?