Well its been a long time to me and my guy and its not like regular relationships

What exactly does this mean?

What is "irregular" about it ?

Ive been in this relationship for long and this is so not like other relationships. I was everything way back, he loved me like crazy and I made a mess with my own two hands by doing things that he didn't want me to do. He never left me then, he still loved me. But now the situation is worse even though I have changed to his liking and I don't do anything to hurt him. It's that he shares and trusts me with so much information of his own and I keep it all to myself. But he gets to hear all that from elsewhere even though I have nothing to do with it. I ain't up to anything, I don't talk about him with anybody anymore, I make sure my social life is distant from my personal one. I keep all that information to myself. But he doesn't believe me. He thinks I'm backstabbing him! Please help, when he trusted me I didn't take care of it I rather took it for granted! I want to win him back :'( don't want to mess up anymore. I'm madly in love with him. And please don't give me crappy answers like have sex and stuff because I love him and there is a fine line between sex and love! Please help

Please come back with more information.

How old are you please?

And I'll give you some advice. People here don't like being told that their answers, or advice, is "crap". You get what you get.

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Originally Posted by crazyinlurve

ive been in this relationship for long and this is so not liek other relationships. i was everything way back, he loved me liek crazy and i made a mess with my own two hands by doing things that he didnt want me to do. he never left me then, he still loved me. but now teh situation is worse even though i have chnged to his liking and i dont do anything to hurt him. its that he shares and trusts me with so much information of his own and i keep it all to myself. but he gets to hear all that from elsewhere even though i have nothing to do with it. i aint upto anything, i dont talk about him with anybody anymore, i make sure my social life is distant from my personal one. i kep all that information to myself. but he doesnt believe me. he thinks im backstabbing him! please help, when he trusted me i didnt take care of it i rather took it for granted! i wanna win him back :'( dont wanna mess up anymore. im madly in love iwth him. and please dont give me crappy answers liek have sex and stuff coz i love him and there is a fine line between sex and love! please help

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I'm not really sure what the issue is - but it sounds like he doesn't trust you any more because you talked about him to other people in the past and he found out. Am I right? But I don't understand this bit...

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it's that he shares and trusts me with so much information of his own and I keep it all to myself. But he gets to hear all that from elsewhere even though I have nothing to do with it

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In any case, you can't make him trust you again if he doesn't want to. Your actions speak louder than your words, so you just have to prove to him, in everything you do that you are trustworthy. In the end, if you believe that you're doing everything right, it's his problem not yours.

It would be good to have some more information about what caused all of this, because it's really hard to provide good advice otherwise. Could you elaborate?