Hi, my aunt's stupid girl Chihuahua went in to heat a few days ago. I have told my aunt many times to get her spayed, but noooooo, she has to be the bit*h of the family and never takes car of her dog. Anyway. Our Australian Shepherd, who is neutered, won't leave her alone! He is getting obsessive! IT DISGUSTING WHAT HE DOES TO HER! She is so small, and he is SO big! It is getting really hard to keep him away from her. He will bite at you, growl, nip, bark, tense up, and even put the hair on is back stand up if you try to touch him or her. And it doesn't help that Lilly (the Chihuahua) is a freaking slut. She will prance all around him and lick herself right next to him. Ugh, I am sad to say that I really don't like Lilly. We have been having family troubles and my grandma and aunt don't want to take their responsibilities. I don't know what to do anymore. How do I help this problem? I am only doing this because no one else cares in the family.

P.S. I think Lilly is set up for a spay in June, I know it's a long time, but we have been on a waiting list since last May.

Do you live with your Aunt?

If not, why are you bringing your dog over while Lily is in heat?

My aunt does live with me. It really makes me mad when I will lock Lilly up and then someone will let her out because, "It's not fair to have er locked up", well its not fair for me to have to pull the other dogs off her.

Why doesn't your Aunt move out?

The way I see it this isn't fair to you or you dog. If your Aunt refuses to get her dog spayed and she lives with you, the least she can do is make sure that her dog is not bothering yours.

This isn't a good situation, especially since you stated that you really don't like little Lily.

Maybe it's time for Auntie and Lily to find a place of their own.

My aunt is only 16. I like Lilly in all, but I don't like her when she is in heat. I just don't know. And my aunt doesn't want dog diapers because she is afraid that Lilly will forget how to go potty outside. I just don't know what to do. I sowed a little diaper type thing, but its not going to work. She isn't bleeding, her V is just really swollen. Ugh, I really don't know what to do. By this May I will be gone, and so will my aunt, so I don't have much time left. My mom always take others peoples sides then mine. (I am the one who takes care of the dogs. I feed them and do everything they need. ) Its weird. (The Aussie is my sisters dog) My Corkie is also neutered, but he isn't all over Lilly. Do you think it is an age thing? Lilly is 1 and Sam is 2?