He doesn't know romance he just wants to jump on when am even not hot for him already.
I love what can I do?

You could always talk to him, tell him what you've told us, explain to him what you want and need.

Has he never participated in foreplay?

Next time he jumps, tell him what you want. If he can't do that, he gets none.

Or tell him at breakfast how he should get you hot before he jumps. Be specific.

Talk to him and tell him you won't do anything unless he's a but more considerate of your needs.

Explain that women are different to men - they need a little 'warming up' to get hot, tell him it's real fun doing it and you'd like him (and you) to try it.

I agree with the others, you have to be brave, and talk to him face to face. If that is hard for you to do, write him a letter, and gently point out that you wish to make your sex life better, and together you can make that happen.

If he truly wants to please you, and not just go through the motions to hop on and get it over with, there is a LOT of good information out there.

Here is one article that I thought spelled out the basics very well.

Foreplay ? the 5 Best Tips to Initiate Lovemaking