I need help getting over an ex...
I'm having a hard time getting over a former relationship. I have to see this person all the time and every time I do it stings, I feel like someone is ripping out my heart and then proceeding to step on it over and over again. Lets just call him... John. John and I have dated numerous and he has always been the one to end it and then come back, all together we've dated for abbot a year. He was also my best friend for a long time and was always the one pursuing me. I loved, and still love him with all my heart. I just can't seem to get over him. Every time I'm with another guy I think of him, I've always been so dependent on him, I've lost myself because I made him my everything. I lost my virginity to him which meant a lot to me, he was my first for everything and he promised I meant so much to him, and that when we had sex he would have the same attachment to me as I would have. After all was said and done, he left me 2 weeks after. He now is telling everyone about all of our "private" things we shared and is sleeping with numerous girls. It kills me, I put so much faith and just simply everything into him. I hate myself because of him. It's draining me and I can't take it anymore. Please help... I'm just so... heartbroken.
Help, my ex is trying to add me on Facebook.
Okay, I know it sounds silly, but I have been working very hard to get over my ex, no communication and such and we do not acknowledge one another in person but he is now trying to add me on Facebook. I do not want to add him because I do not want to stalk him and see who he talks to, what's new and ext. BUT I don't want to offend him if he notices that I did not accpet his request. I know I am over thinking this, but what do I do? Advice?