Hey guys
I was in a club with 3 other girls one night and a guy came up to me to tell me that he has been observing me for a while and he thinks I have a nice smile.
Next he offered drinks, I kindly declined
He walked away...
Next he came back again to chat up. And he asked if I wanted to dance, I said its OK I am pretty comfortable here so probably not.
He said for my number, I gave him a wrong one because I wasn't too keen to see any random guy I meet at the club. After I gave my no. I left the club and was walking toward the car park.
To my surprise, he immediately texts the wrong no. I gave him and the person replied him saying he got the wrong person.
He left the club and came after me. I got a shock and he kind of confronted me, I was alone and so I figured OK fine, I will give him my number.
Since then we exchange text messages via our mobile every day for about 1.5 weeks. Through our conversations he seems interesting but still I didn't think I should go out with him as he's like a complete stranger .
However I changed my mind after reading a text message he sent me at 2 AM.
" hey i know we met in the least ideal situation, and you should think poorly of me, but i just want to tell you that meeting you has been a huge moment for me, and i was really glad i mustered up the courage to speak to you that day. Still i respect that you want to keep distant, but i don't want you to think that you are losing out on anything. If you ever feel this way again just tell me and i ll back off. Just thought you should know i cherish our friendship. night"
I was kind of touched by his text and so I have agreed to meet up with him this weekend. But I told him I ll be bring a girlfriend along and he should bring another friend too.
However two days ago he completely stopped texting me... why is that so? I am little curious about it. Because sometimes I don't reply him but he still texts me .
I am kind of excited about this weekend's meet up... but I don't know if he will inform me about the plans. I don't want to take the initiative to text him.
Do guys text you very intensively and then completed stop to test your reaction?