Originally Posted by
QLP
It is not weak for a guy to cry. You are a human being and whatever way feels right for you to express your emotions, as long as it's not by abusing someone else, is perfectly valid.
You sound like a perfectly nice, normal man to me.
The extra infomation you have given about your wife makes it clear that she is feeling confused at the moment, so it's hardly suprising you are finding it so hard to deal with when nothing is getting resolved yet.
Sometimes with conselling you have to work through some really hard bits before it gets better, so maybe that is what is happening now. Stick with it and see if you can make it through this dark patch. Although, some consellors are better than others so it is worth asking yourself if you are happy with the way this one is handling things.
Keep posting if it helps at all. I am working through some problems in my marriage myself, and I have found asking for help on here does help me to clarify my feelings sometimes.
I have also had times when things seemed awful, with some other stuff, and I really wanted to cry (I'm a female btw so it happens to us too) but couldn't. The tears did come eventually, though it was much longer than I expected before it happened.
I hope things get easier soon.