Where do I start, I found my partners secrect email and had a browse as he checks mine constantly, I found a dating profile for him as you could imagine I was shocked, I approched him with this when we were drunk I know I shouldn't but that's me. He blew a gasket and has dumped me. I love him sooo much and am totally gutted. Why has he dumped me surely it should be me that's mad and should be deciding if I want to be with him or not. Please help me.

You can be mad at him for his actions, but the bottom line is he dumped you because he doesn't feel the same way about your anymore

The fact that he has a dating site means that he's willing to jepordize his relationship with you, which means he doesn't care about you anymore.

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Originally Posted by I wish

You can be mad at him for his actions, but the bottom line is he dumped you because he doesn't feel the same way about your anymore

The fact that he has a dating site means that he's willing to jepordize his relationship with you, which means he doesn't care about you anymore.

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Thanks for replying. All the emails were still bold and he said he set it up before he started seeing me, I know he loves me very much, he says he has never used the account for a long time. Do you think he is maybe a bit embarrassed and is just annoyed and will just need time to calm down, I was a to him about it and said sum nasty stuff, :confused::confused::confused:

I think you're better off.
You approached him with this.
And instead of him explaining himself calmly, he dumps you. I think he's acting a bit guilty.
If he wanted to be with you then I don't think this should have been such a big problem.
He would have just explained himself and that alone should have been enough.
I mean if he hasn't been on the dating site for a long time then what's the big deal?
He simply should have said that he hasn't been on it for a long time and that he was too embarrassed to tell you about it in the beginning. Which makes me think he's feeling bad about something =S

We don't know what he's thinking, but his actions are clear.

Instead of trying to work things out with you, he gave up. If he gave up, then there's nothing to can do to repair the relationship because it takes two people to make a relationship.

I think he was caught ( it was easy to check the date of a email) So take him back knowing he was wanting to date others anyway.

Plus "he was always checking yours"
Sounds like not much of a loving relationship