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  • Nov 26, 2009, 07:45 PM
    kylegallner
    How to get a bad boy like me
    Well I just can't seem to find the right guy for me at all. I really want a bad boy to notice me really bad but nobody does. Help me!!
  • Nov 26, 2009, 08:55 PM
    tickle

    Why to do want a bad boy, in particular, no notice you ?

    Tick
  • Nov 26, 2009, 09:58 PM
    jaime90

    This seems to be a common thing among young women- they go to almost any length to get the guys to like them- and not just girls either, guys do it too. You shouldn't go looking for guys, trying to win them over. You need to WAIT for the right guy and the right time. You just described the guy you're interested in as a "bad boy"... I'm going to tell you straight up-from the few words in your post, you don't seem mature enough to even know a "right" guy from a "wrong" guy... and it's very, very obvious.
  • Nov 26, 2009, 10:02 PM
    artlady

    Why don't you try this., get real ,know who you are and love and respect yourself and THEN teach other girls to respect themselves.
    Not that's an action that I want to see! :) :)
  • Nov 26, 2009, 10:17 PM
    jaime90

    artlady... was this ^^^
    directed toward me or the OP?
  • Nov 27, 2009, 07:46 AM
    kylegallner
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by tickle View Post
    why to do want a bad boy, in particular, no notice you ?

    tick

    Because I'm just like them at my school(I am the rebelious one)but they just don't notice me at all.
  • Nov 27, 2009, 08:38 AM
    I wish
    Why don't you be a nice person? Find a nice guy and have a healthy relationship.
  • Nov 27, 2009, 10:01 AM
    tickle
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kylegallner View Post
    beacuse im just like them at my school(i am the rebelious one)but they just dont notice me at all.

    You had better be careful my dear, you may get more then you bargain for.

    Tick
  • Nov 27, 2009, 12:50 PM
    Alty

    I'm going to guess that the OP is not even 13. Eleven? Maybe 12? Am I close?

    You want a bad boy. Why? Is it because you watch movies with the bad boy and think it's reality?

    Bad boys aren't all they're cut out to be, neither are bad girls.

    You say you're rebellious. Why? Are you looking for attention? If so, are you looking for the right attention or the wrong? I'm going to go with wrong.

    Here's my definition of a bad boy;

    - someone that beats you.
    - someone that breaks the law.
    - someone that has no respect for you.
    - someone that doesn't care about you or your feelings.
    - someone that just wants to get in your pants but doesn't care about any of the consequences.
    - someone that isn't very nice.

    Is that what you want? Think about it, not the TV or movie version, but the reality.

    Here's some reality for you. I dated so called "bad boys". Here's what I got for it. I got my head bashed into a windshield because I wouldn't have sex with him. I got raped. I got beaten. I was left in the middle of no where and had to walk home in freezing weather, 3 miles, almost lost my toe to frost bite. I got a stalker that went so far as to slash my tires and leave a dead mouse on my car. There's more, should I go on?

    Yup, bad boys are the best. NOT!

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