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  • Nov 25, 2009, 08:49 PM
    vannessa
    Why is love so hard?
    Why is love so hard to get over?I'm asking this question because I like sombody a lot but I don't know if he likes me and another girls like him I think and I think he likes 1 of does girls and I don't knoow what to do because I love him and he is almost always looking at me and I get nervous but I love him a lot what do I do?please help meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.
  • Nov 25, 2009, 09:10 PM
    N0help4u

    When you are young you think you will never get over a guy. I look back now 30 yrs later or even less and THANK God I am not with any guy I THOUGHT I HAD to have.
    Its funny how time heals things and works them out for the better.
    Sadly when we try to hang on to something that isn't right for us it haunts us for years to come. I still have things biting me back for being with my ex husband. Only good thing that came out of that was my 4 great kids but that was even more than I could handle at the time.
    Trust me if its meant to be it will work out. If you push it and it seems to work out it still might not work in the long run. Let things work themselves out.
  • Nov 26, 2009, 12:29 AM
    Clough
    Hi, vannessa!

    What grade are you in, please? It would be helpful to know that.

    Thanks!
  • Jan 27, 2010, 08:45 PM
    VSPrasad

    A student asked his teacher, "What is love?"

    The teacher said, "to get an answer to your
    question, go to the wheat field, get the biggest
    wheat grain, and come back."

    But the rule is - you can go through the field
    Only once and cannot turn back to pick."

    The student went to the field, gone through the
    first row, and saw one big wheat grain. But he
    wondered....may be there is a bigger one else
    where.

    Then he saw a bigger one. But may be there is a
    still bigger one waiting....

    Later, when he finished more than half of the
    wheat field, he realized that the wheat grains
    there are not as big as the previous one. He
    realized that he has missed the biggest one.

    So, he ended up the search and went back empty
    hand. The teacher told him, "That is love! If you
    Keep looking for a better one, you could have
    Missed the right person!"

    "Then, what is marriage?" the student asked.

    The teacher said, "to get an answer to your
    Question, go to the same wheat field again, and
    Get the biggest corn. Same rule as before!"

    The student went to the corn field. This time he
    is very careful not to repeat the previous
    mistake. When he reached the middle of the field,
    he picked one good sized corn. He felt satisfied,
    and came back.

    The teacher told him, "You have looked for one
    That is just good for you, instead of coming back
    Empty handed. That is marriage!"

    "What is Friendship then?" the student asked.

    The teacher said, "in order to answer that
    Question, go to the same field and choose the
    Wheat that appears nice to you. The rule is is the
    Same."

    The student went to the field. This time he is
    very careful. As he started scanning the field, he
    has picked many grains that suited his taste and
    come back to the teacher.

    The teacher told him, "You looked for one that is
    Just nice for you, and did not look for the best.
    That is Friendship".

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