Um... jeeze this is harder than I thought it would be... ok , well here goes...

Well, I'm almost 15 now, and me and my boyfriend were dating for 8 months. And my boyfriend was always pushing for sex and I never wanted to at least till marriage
Then one day I went over to his house and we were play wrestling and he somehow ended up on top of me. We started kissing and I guess I got caught up in the moment or something cause I didn't even notice his hand down my pants, or when he took them off. I only noticed when he put his penis inside my vagina and it was my first time so it was hurting, I told him to stop, and he told me to shut up and enjoy it,I kept asking him to stop... and he didn't stop for like 5 minutes even though it felt like hours to me

Anyway, I guess what I'm asking is was it my fault that I lost my virginity to him?:confused::confused::confused:


And if your wondering yes I did break up with him, I was too scared of him to continue on with any type of relastionship. And I may have freaked out more than I needed to but I couldn't just let him run my life... and yes he's my age

Well... I think I might be pregnant with my ex's child,what should I do... should I tell him, help me!

What he did was force himself on you, and you were right to dump this creep.

Hard as it will be its time to talk to mom, and dad. They can help you through this. They can help you get tested for pregnancy, and disease, and give you guidance for what should be done next. Talk to them before you talk to him.

Not your fault at all. The second you said stop he should have obliged. I agree with Tal though, tell your parents and go from there. If you are pregnant, then I would get him for child support and tell him to shut up and enjoy it when he es about paying it.