I'm a girl and my desire is someone to love me. Now, this day and age, and at my young teen-age, guys don't really do respect anymore. And they have to like the way you look to ever bother with you. I think I'm "plain" nothing, kind of, you know? Back to the question.

Well I want to catch some eyes using subtle ways. I need some tips on how to add little things here and there that will drive the boys crazy and make them want to talk to me. Its cold over here so not much skin can be shown without it looking ridiculous. But what would you suggest? What's subtley sexy? Sequins and gems? Hair pins? Slit skirts? Please advise, and thank you :)

Some guys like a simple girl! I know I do! If you love the way you are right now =P don't change it at all. The right guy will definitely come along. =P

Trying to look sexy just to catch a guys eye is never the way to go.

Be yourself.

Do you really want a guy that only cares about how you look?

Shower lots and wear only subtle make-up.

The sexiest thing you can do is smile and be confident.

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Originally Posted by guineapigging

at my young teen-age

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At 14, 'sexy' is being comfortable in your own skin. (You gave your age in your first question on AMHD.)

Don't worry about what boys like. They don't matter as much as what you like about yourself.

Don't rush growing up. Spend this time in your life learning about yourself. It will give you self-confidence which no amount of make-up, split skirts, sequins or gems can give you.

Enjoy groups of friends and making friends of both sexes. Work on your social skills and how to communicate with people.

Give yourself time.

This reminds me of that song by the Waitresses.

*background music plays!
"I know what boys like, I know what guys want"

At 14 years old you shouldn't be too worried about looking sexy. I don't even think 14 year olds should look try to look sexy. It's okay to wear make up and wear cute clothes, but it's not sexy when teens or even adults go overboard and wear a lot of jewlery, make up or revealing clothing. I know that you may be concernced about the way you look but why not just throw on a pair of jeans and a nice shirt, get a cute haircut, and maybe wear a little bit of make up.

Hmmm... Im 14 to and umm sexy is not the way to go! Cause if you try to hard you may end up looking like a tramp and lord knows the world has enough of them! Don't be another clique girl and only try to get guys with your looks!