Originally Posted by
rosemcs
This really depends on how close you feel to her and here is why: the more you let her into your life, the more she can hurt you. She has already pulled away. Would you like that to happen over and over again, while giving her a shoulder to cry on? Ask yourself if this behavior will make you happy. It would make me very hurt. I would always have to deal with the feelings I had for that person, knowing that what I had to offer was not good enough.
It is a tough place to be in, but she already has let you go. Let her go. She will respect you more for standing on your own. Tell her that you have feelings for her, and she can talk to you when she would like to get back together. That way, it is very clear what the expectations are. A real man stands by what he says and it is respected. Otherwise, you will become her kleenex box-she will use you when she needs you and disregard you when she doesn't.