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  • Nov 22, 2009, 11:05 PM
    marquez
    Conversation Starter
    Aight yo listen up!!
    There is this girl that I don't know very well at all. We have no classes together. But I see her around school often but only during passing time. What could I talk to her about during passing time. What also could I say to her at the end of the day. (I need more questions than how was your day or how was your day so far?
  • Nov 22, 2009, 11:24 PM
    mudweiser

    A simple "hi" is fine.

    Ask her what grade she's in.. The conversation should roll out naturally not like some weird interview.
  • Nov 22, 2009, 11:25 PM
    Wondergirl

    Tell her to think of a number from 1 to 5. She says 4. "Bingo!" you say. "You'll get your prize the next time I see you." The next time you see her, give her a prize, like small, cute stuffed animal (Amazon has fuzzy animal finger puppets for under $5 each) or a sampler box of candy (like Whitman's or Russell Stover) with maybe four pieces in it, wrapped up in tissue paper and maybe tied at the top with a bow or in a small gift bag.
  • Nov 22, 2009, 11:29 PM
    mudweiser
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Tell her to think of a number from 1 to 5. She says 4. "Bingo!" you say. "You'll get your prize the next time I see you." The next time you see her, give her a prize, like small, cute stuffed animal (Amazon has fuzzy animal finger puppets for under $5 each) or a sampler box of candy (like Whitman's or Russell Stover) with maybe four pieces in it, wrapped up in tissue paper and maybe tied at the top with a bow or in a small gift bag.

    That is cute but if he doesn't know her... it's a little well creepy.

    At least if something like that happened to me..

    I liked the idea though...
  • Nov 22, 2009, 11:59 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by mudweiser View Post
    That is cute but if he doesn't know her... it's a little well creepy.

    At least if something like that happened to me..

    I liked the idea though....

    He would do it only once, maybe after chatting with her a couple of times first so she knows who he is. The gift could be even more small and inexpensive than I mentioned, perhaps a roll of Necco wafers or a fun-size package of M&Ms. The thing is to get her attention with something a little different. Girls like surprises and guys with an imagination. (He may have to come back here to get more ideas, in case he has no imagination for the future... )
  • Nov 25, 2009, 10:19 AM
    LearningAsIGo

    A few ideas:

    Hey! Have you seen __(movie)___

    Do you know Mr. ____(teacher)___. Isn't he ___weird, fun, etc.

    What do you like to do after school? I'm sick of ____ and want to try something new.

    Do you like ___(music)__? Have you heard of ___(band name)___?

    Pay attention to her locker, backpack, clothes, anything that may give you a clue about things she's into like sports, music, etc. That should help you.

    Another simple idea

    NICE ____(compliment her clothes, etc)__ and ask her where she got it.

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