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  • Nov 21, 2009, 11:11 AM
    EliNagle
    Told her I like her,she likes me,something holding her back from relationship.
    I'm in college and have liked a girl this semester.we hang out and always have fun.I told her yesterday that I liked her and she asked why did I wait so long to tell her.then she said she likes me also and isn't talking to anyone else.she says I'm a great Guy but doesn't know what's holding her back from a relationship.what should I do? She also said her last relationship was with a Guy she wasn't sure she liked all the way.
  • Nov 21, 2009, 11:24 AM
    jaime90

    All you need to do is be a good friend to her, and don't push a relationship. Something is holding her back- if you need to ask her what it is, go ahead. Otherwise, you need to leave it rest.
  • Nov 21, 2009, 11:30 AM
    talaniman
    You date, and have fun, and see where it leads. If it doesn't go the way you want, you date someone else. Don't let her feelings, or your own, complicate things at this point.

    Talaniman Rule- Date them all, short, fat, skinny, or tall. 18 to 80, blind, cripple, or crazy.

    This will at least help keep things in there proper perspective, and keep you from getting attached so fast, you miss other options and opportunities.

    A potential partners confusion, and reluctance, can confuse us as well.

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