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  • Nov 20, 2009, 04:19 PM
    12233
    Condoms? Or .
    Hello everyone.
    I need some advice..
    Well my boyfriend and I have gone out for 2 years and when we have sex we use condoms sometimes..
    We have had unprotected sex but he pulls it out right before he cums is that OK to do or just use condoms?. I'm 18 by the way.
  • Nov 20, 2009, 04:52 PM
    bjohnrupp

    If you don't want to get pregnant why don't you just take the pill?
  • Nov 20, 2009, 04:56 PM
    none12345
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by 12233 View Post
    Hello everyone.
    I need some advice..
    Well my boyfriend and i have gone out for 2 years and when we have sex we use condoms sometimes..
    We have had unprotected sex but he pulls it out right before he cums is that ok to do or just use condoms?.. im 18 by the way.

    If you want to get pregnant, than yah that's OK.
  • Nov 20, 2009, 05:23 PM
    jmjoseph
    The world is full of people that are the result of the "withdrawal method".

    It simply does not work.

    If you are going to be sexually active, you should be on some form of birth control, AND condoms.

    The next time you see a young woman with a crying baby, think about how THAT could be YOU.
  • Nov 20, 2009, 05:37 PM
    talaniman

    Nothing is 100% effective against pregnancy between two healthy adults who have sex. Its only a matter of time before you make a mistake, and become pregnant.

    Talk to a doctor, and get more options.
  • Nov 20, 2009, 09:55 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    There is really no such thing as a "withdraw" method, there is plenty of sperm in all the early fluids. He is merely ruding the chances,
    Lets say it was a gun, and he takes out 5 of the six bullets, would you put it to your head and pull the trigger, of course not.

    And even condoms are not 100 percent, they have about a 3 percent failure when used property, and about a 10 percent as normally used.

    So if you want to be safe, use birth control and a condom
  • Nov 20, 2009, 10:14 PM
    ohsohappy

    If you do want a child, then he doesn't even need to pull out, but since he is, I assume that you don't want one.

    Use a condom at the very least, and if it makes you feel better, keep using the "pull out" method WITH the condom, AND, get on birth control.

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