Advice (Does she need time or what)
OK, firstly let me give you a little history. (The problem is at the bottom if you don't want to read) Me and this girl met at a show where we saw our favorite band. It started as an AIM relationship but then she started calling and we started hanging out. She would always randomly text but one day she went to visit a "guy" friend in cali. This was before we dated so everything was cool. WHen she was there she was calling me wondering why she went. I bought her a teddy bear and left it in her room for when she came back. We started dateing 3 or 4 days later.
She got to where we would talk all the time, sometimes I thought too much. I mean 10,000 minutes on the cell phone (Good thing we both have tmobile). Everything was going well but I noticed she was talking to that cali guy too much. I made her tell him we where dating (She was trying to hide it at first). She slowly stopped talking to him but slowly stopped sending me those random text.
I moved off to summer camp to work and everything was going great. WE even took a little weeek long trip together the week before. Well I got so busy I couldn't call for hrs a day like she was used to. While I was at camp she started tralking to this online guy again. She also sent naked pictures to this other online guy but I was fine with that because I knew she would never meet this guy. He was old and married. The week I came home from summer camp she said she was going with her dad to a conference. I found out she went to cali so I broke up with her. She called days later saying sorry and that she won't ever do it again and that no sex was involved.
Well summercamps over we are both in school. She was always really sad at night because she missed me and I worked nights. She would call crying. One day she started hanging out with this other guy and suddenly dumped me. But we remained great friends. That guy only lasted three days but we never really started dateing again. She said she needs someone to cuddle with.
***NOW AND PROBLEM (if you want to skip the rest)
Well for the past months she has been calling me during her lunch break and breaks at school (While I sleep and I have never asked her to call) and I always answer and talk to her. I call her from work at night. Well last night I sent her a text and said "Hows school going" she replied with "STFU". We actually where even planning a trip for christmas just last week. She has been very worried about school and hasn't slept much because she isn't doing well in school and has problems with H/W. I replied with "whats wrong" and she got super pissed and said she didn't want to call me anymore and told me not to take off for the trip. The day before she was saying "I love you" even few hrs before she said it even though we are just friends. SHe didn't call last night or any today and she rejected all my calls so I just gave up. After one call she sent a text "Busy Baby TTYL" and last night she said "I just dont wanna talk to anyone right now, its not you i promise just give me a few days". What should I do? She usually hits her period at this time of the month so she may be super PMSING but she has never done that. It may be the stress buidling up. I did get her to answer one text this morning and I asked "Is it me, do you still love me?" and she replied "You just dont know when to mind your own buisness, and yes i do kinda but not as much" I called right after that and that was when she said "Busy baby ttyl" and I just left her alone after that (been 24 hrs now not 1 text or call from her). Its not like I call her too much, she calls me. Here are the only things I can come up with
1.) She is PMSING
2.) She is tired because she hasn't slept much and just needs time
3.) She has found someone else but she has always told me about the guys she dates
4.) Stress from doing bad in school
We are just friends but she is a great friend that I love. We have fun talking. What should I do? And what does it look like is going on to you guys/girls. Maybe she felt we where getting to close?
