So there's this guy I've known for about a year, but he's not just any guy he's my bestfreind. At first everything started pretty cool, we go along quite well and became close real fast. Then out of no where he starts dating my best girlfriend. I'm pretty cool about the whole thing but deep inside I'm kind of bump out. They go out for quite a while and then break up, she is heartbroken and decides to leave, which completely left me devastated, she's my best friend and I love her and I felt kind of abandon. So she's gone but he's still here, and I decide not to ask any questions about what happen between them it's there problem not mine. Then all of a sudden he starts dating another close friend of mine who I love like a little sister. For some reason I just can't stand it! I was OK with him dating my bestgirfriend who I love to death, but I can't stand him dating her! The worst part about it all is that I have really strong feelings for him! I don't know what it is but I love the guy. What do I do? Should I be happy for him and pretend like there is nothing wrong or do I tell him how I feel and ruin one of the best friendships I ever had? I don't even know if its really love that I feel I keep telling myself these feelings will go away but they haven't? I need someone to please help advise and tell me what I should do!

If he had feelings for you, he would have told you by now. Maybe one day he will return the feelings, but right now, he doesn't. I'm sorry to sound harsh, but you got to accept and move on.

If you can't handle a simple friendship, then avoid contact with him until your feelings for him have gone away. Otherwise, you're just putting yourself through misery.

Just keep meeting new people.

OP,

You said that he is your best guy friend? How did you define "best guy friend"? It's probably only in your head that you guys were close, blah, blah.

Does he treat you as his " best" female friend? Did he even tell you he started dating your best female friend?

I'd move on long time ago when he started to date your best female friend. He is not worth of it.

I am in love with my best friend. I have 2 or 3 besties and 2 of them are boys... I am in love with both of them but mostly the one I have known longer...
I tried to stop falling in love with him but it dident work :(