I broke up with my b/f of 6 mouths because when he was with me it always seemed likes he waants to be somewhere else. But now I have been without him for 2 weeks I notice how much I really miss him an dhow much I actully love him. I miss the way he would talk to me, always was their for me , and how we could just talk 4 hours about nothing. But what happens if I tell him how I feel and he doent feel the same wy. Every day that goes on I notice I love him more and more. Should I love him an ddo him a favor and not tell him or tell him

I think you have nothing to lose by calling him and saying that you have made a mistake and want him back.. But you need to be careful how you deal with the conversation because the worst thing you can do is beg him..

Evidently, he may be a little upset and feel rejected and resentful for the fact that you ended the relationship.. It is common to miss someone when they are not there anymore!

And remember, he may just like his space in the relationship and this is actually very healthy where you don't spend too much time together..

I'm sure others on here will tell you similar things like this..
Just because he does not spend every day with you does not mean he does not have feelings for you!

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Originally Posted by kdbugs

I broke up with my b/f of 6 mouths bc when he was with me it always seemed likes he waants to be somewhere else. But now i have been without him for 2 weeks i notice how much i really miss him an dhow much i actully love him. I miss the way he would talk to me, always was their for me , and how we could just talk 4 hours about nothing. But wut happens if i tell him how i feel and he doent feel the same wy. Every day that goes on i notice i love him more and more. Should i love him an ddo him a favor and not tell him or tell him

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Hang on a minute, I misread this, I thought you were saying that he does not want to be with you every day but what you are actually saying is that he seems to not want to be around you while he is in your company...

There may be something more to this...

Still my advice is the same, you have nothing to lose by contacting him...

However PLEASE don't do this until you get some more replies on here from others who may be able to give you more insight!!

You have a mixed message in here... first you state that when he was with you it seemed like he always wanted to be somewhere else... then you state that you miss how he was always there for you... His physical presence perhaps was there but his mind and thoughts must have been elsewhere, why else would you pick up the vibe that he was "not there"?
I would let it go and see if he calls. Maybe he found his "somewhere else" or perhaps he is realizing that he had it all along, just never appreciated it. It has only been two weeks, which can seem like a 2 months, but I would stand my ground and not call. Get yourself in other activities that will be positive for your emotional health. Best of luck to you.

People want what they can't have. You can't have him now so you want him again.

Once you get him back you will feel the same distant feelings from him. Things won't have changed.

Cut your losses and realise it is over for a reason and move on.

Look after yourself and find someone who will make you happy when you are with them

You gave him the boot because you where not happy so what has changed to make it different? Oh I forgot now you miss him. But have you changed at all? I doubt it. Work on yourself and remember couples that communicate have a better chance on growing together than those that don't. Leave him alone and work on yourself.

I agree with Tal and shygrneyz...
Im confused :confused: