I'm in a relationship with a love that we actually can't compare. Problem is I'm jealous and possesive. He reassures me that the past is the past and that he was born to be with me. That he waited many years to find me and considers me his soul mate. But I worry all the time about his past relationships, wonder how good they were and if I live up to them and then I worry about all women around. The women on the streets the women at his job even women on TV. He says he loves me to death and wants to grow old with me but I can't seem to shake this jealous thing.
Please help in any way
P.S. you'll see I ask many question about who, what, where, when, and what.:(

It's not the first, second or third love that matters. It's the last one that matters.

He's not with them, he's with you. Cut yourself some slack. Give yourself more credit. I'm sure you have lots to offer.

We can't change the fact that he had other relationships in the past. I know it sucks that there's an ongoing comparison, whether consciously or unconsciously, but look on the bright side, he has a better idea of what he's looking for and that would be YOU.

Thank you for your quick response. I have a lot of work to do on myself. But my motto is NEVER GIVE UP, NEVER SURRENDER. So that's what I'll do
Thanks again!