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  • Nov 13, 2009, 01:41 AM
    askully
    Stay with her?
    Should you stay with the girl who means everything to you, despite a few arguments?
  • Nov 13, 2009, 01:58 AM
    Starry nights
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by askully View Post
    Should you stay with the girl who means everything to you, despite a few arguments?

    Arguments are natural in any relationship.Any argument can be solved by both parties having a mutually respectful dialogue.

    However,if arguments are frequent,violent and are threatening the relationship,that's a point of consideration.If the root cause behind such arguments aren't looked into,they may lead to damaging consequences in future.
  • Nov 13, 2009, 05:47 AM
    Always_asking
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Starry nights View Post
    Arguments are natural in any relationship.Any argument can be solved by both parties having a mutually respectful dialogue.

    However,if arguments are frequent,violent and are threatening the relationship,thats a point of consideration.If the root cause behind such arguments arent looked into,they may lead to damaging consequences in future.

    I totally agree arguuments happen and if you are trully in love you can get past these arguments, my parner and I argued almost every fortnight for our first year and a half together, but then I realised this was becase he didn't realise that an argument is really just a way too communicate with each other where nobody holds back and every party has their honest say, if someone holds back on what they are feling the problem is not solved and will come back again very shortly afterwards, ensure next time you argue that you both have a chance to say everything that is bothering you.
    As starry nights has said though if the arguments are violent etc Get Out.
  • Nov 13, 2009, 07:15 AM
    s_cianci
    I would say it depends on what the arguments were about and how they were resolved, if they were resolved.

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