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  • Nov 12, 2009, 08:29 PM
    PMathur
    In love with a guy.
    I am in love with a guy in my office,but I am a widow.So I am hesitant to express my feeling with him.whether he will take in right sense or not.Dont know what to do now.
  • Nov 12, 2009, 08:35 PM
    A4Effort

    I feel like with this situation only you are the one able to make this decision. Make sure enough time has passed and that you have mourned. If you do decide that this is a step you are willing to take then take things slow.
  • Nov 12, 2009, 08:37 PM
    I wish
    You don't need to express your feelings right away. Just focus on getting to know each other better first and see where that goes.
  • Nov 13, 2009, 03:50 AM
    Starry nights
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by PMathur View Post
    I am in love with a guy in my office,but i am a widow.So i am hesitant to express my feeling with him.whether he will take in right sense or not.Dont know what to do now.

    I Wish,right as usual:)

    Before you decide you are in love with him,try and develop a warm,friendly relation with him.There are many ways to do that since you work in the same office.

    Talk to him,share your likes and dislikes,understand how he feels about relationships,women etc.The usual.Enjoy spending time with him and try and gauge his mindset about your kind of a situation.

    Only when you feel absolutely comfortable(and if he hasn't shown any disinclination towards your interest in him),take the plunge.

    But hope you have healed completely from your loss and are prepaed to kind of put yourself out there on the line.This relationship/love thing can hurt as well,as I am sure you are aware and you need to know for sure if you are ready to go through all that.

    All the best.

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