Not sure what to think ex fiancée trying to come back in the picture . We ened our relationship 10 years ago and he went on to marry someone else as did I , recently he conatacted me and said he made a mistake that he still loved me and always had , his relationship didn't work out and mine well its on the way out as well we talked and now I'm conffused should I try again with him or just let it go .

It depends. Are you both free? Or are you both still married to someone else? If you both want to get back together, then you need to end the other relationship first. If you both are not free, then you are not only involving just two of you, but your families as well. Reality is that relationships, unlike the ones we see in the movie actually involve families.

I went over your other thread just to refresh my memery on your situation...

Your really in a tough place in your marriage right now,and a kind word from a ex may swing your decision to stay or not to stay in your marriage..

I think perhaps there is a serious lack of communication in your marriage,and a lot of outside influences dictating their wants and needs...

My advice is to take serious stock of your situation before making any rash decisions.