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  • Nov 11, 2009, 03:53 PM
    The Dark09
    How to ask a girl out before she's takin'?
    Help
  • Nov 11, 2009, 03:57 PM
    redhed35

    If she is single,you could start with 'hello'

    Get to know her first,just talk,if you don't open your mouth to speak,how will she ever know your interested,and how will you ever know she might like you too!
  • Nov 11, 2009, 04:02 PM
    The Dark09

    Well we're friends.
  • Nov 11, 2009, 04:08 PM
    redhed35
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by The Dark09 View Post
    well we're friends.


    If she is single,ask her out,to a movie,or dinner,a walk... something,you won't know unless you try.

    What ages are you both?
  • Nov 11, 2009, 04:10 PM
    The Dark09

    Both 16
  • Nov 12, 2009, 10:35 AM
    jaime90

    If you want to ask a girl out, all you have to do is say, "Hey, do you want to go out with me sometime?" You don't have to over do anything- state it plainly, simply, and honestly. Tell her you want to take her out, don't try to tell her without straight up telling her- just tell her! You can't be in a dating relationship with her if you can't even talk to her.
  • Nov 12, 2009, 11:25 AM
    2ndTime

    Do you know if she feels the same way about you?
  • Nov 12, 2009, 04:19 PM
    The Dark09

    No idea
  • Nov 13, 2009, 09:02 AM
    I wish
    Ask her on a date and go from there.

    1) If she says YES, then go with the flow and have fun together.

    2) If she says NO, then you can stop wondering how she feels about you and find someone else who feels the same way.
  • Nov 14, 2009, 08:13 AM
    The Dark09

    jaime90 I did what you said and she said she'll think about it
  • Nov 16, 2009, 10:55 AM
    jaime90

    Give her some time to think about it. She's could be sincerely interested... The more space you give, and the more respect you give this decision, the better. If she hasn't told you what she thinks after a long while, you could ask her if she has come up with a decision. Until then though, sit back and wait, there's no reason to nag her, or rush her decision.
  • Nov 17, 2009, 10:20 AM
    2ndTime

    If she says no, go ask someone else. There's so much fish in the ocean.
  • Nov 17, 2009, 10:42 AM
    jaime90

    Agreed. There's a possibility she's just blowing you off. Take it as it is: she'll think about it, so that's a maybe- don't get your hopes up, but don't lose hope in this relationship completely. If she says yes, great, if not- like 2ndTime said: there's plenty of fish in the sea.
  • Nov 21, 2009, 03:34 AM
    broknhearted

    I think you should ask her to go owt with you when you go out with your mates that way shell feel like your not ashamed of being aroiund her in front of your mates.. lol..
  • Nov 23, 2009, 11:39 AM
    The Dark09

    I sort of love her.
  • Nov 23, 2009, 11:49 AM
    adam_89

    How do you love her? You aren't even dating her. I'm not trying to take that away from you though. Like everyone else has said just be patient and wait. Either she will or she won't date you. Just don't be up in her face all the time about it. That could easily drive her away.
  • Nov 23, 2009, 12:25 PM
    I wish
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by The Dark09 View Post
    i sorta love her.

    Wait until you've gone on your first date with her.

    Become her official boyfriend.

    Date for a few months.

    Then tell us that you love her.

    Right now, it's a crush / lust / infactuation.
  • Nov 23, 2009, 01:13 PM
    2ndTime

    I think he means, he has crush on her. More like puppy love.

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