I'm only young, but have had my fair share of relationships; some have been 'flings' or just for the sake of being 'in a relationship' though there has been the odd few where it has been serious and there has been love, from what i was told the love was from both sides but i ended up finding left feeling sorry for myself because in the end there was no love.

I'm now in a relationship where, my boyfriend is 9 years my seinor, i don't care one bit about the age difference or what others may think. My boyfriend and i have already gone over that. But with my past relationships falling to bits i feel like it will happen again and have been getting bad feelings or vibes from him. Have been having bad dreams, one infact where he tells me he has or is loosing interest in me.

What do i do??????

I think your own insecurities and fears are projecting outwards. You can talk to him about your concerns and quit letting the past haunt or debilitate your future.

Be extremely cautious. Don't jump into a relationship with a guy you hardly know that you're getting "bad vibes" from. Be VERY cautious. Guard your heart so it doesn't get shredded to pieces yet again. Don't give him all of your emotions- you never know what he will do with them. Wait until you know for sure that this is the for real love.

You are insecure,it is normal to feel that way but it is best to straighten it out asap.Also,if you don't really know the guy too well,you may be getting mixed signals about him because you don't know his true likes and such.Good luck!