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Im 13 and Ive never kissed or had a boyfriend before. I know Im 2 young but all my friends have and well Im ancious to know what it feels like. I know Im not ugly because Ive gotten compliments about being really pretty before. My problem is that guys only check me out, and when they do like me they never tell me, they just show it. So how come boys are not afraid to tell my friends how they feel, but they are with me.:eek:
Don't worry about not being kissed yet. When the time comes it will happen and it will probably be something you will remember the rest of your life. A peck of a kiss at this age would not mean much. So don't be so anxious. What would be great is if the guy that give you your first kiss is the guy you spend the rest of you life with.
Hun you need to wait for your first kiss. Don't rush it. I did and It is nothing special. If u wait It will me more memorable and exciting. Boys are weird like that. Some just like to look. Others r 2 shy to talk to you if they like u. Now every once in a while there will be a boy who come up to talk to you if you are lucky. Some boys might think you are attractive and pretty go for those guys. Not the ones that lust and call you hott.
You might be too pretty for them to express their feelings to you.
Hate to break it to you... first kisses are awful. =]
No one knows what's going on and it's just, ugh. But, as far as guys not telling you that they like you... is probably because they are shy. Another cold hard fact is that guys at your age go for girls who are sexually-oriented. I think that's wrong, but it's just the way it is. Don't go being silly and throwing yourself around. But, I'd just wait. It's so annoying to hear that... trust me, I'm a teenager too. But, patience really is a virtue.
Don't worry, it will happen!Quote:
Originally Posted by Duran Duran luver
Boys are funny like that - they get intimdated when they see a pretty girl, they are scared they will get rejected and make fun of if that happens in front of their friends.
Don't rush just so you catch up with your friends, I knew some girls at school who did that and ended up getting themselves a rather horrid name, if you know what I mean.
Trust you will be kissed just don't rush for it :)
Don't worry about this, when I was 13 I had my first kiss 2! And it was great! Kissing isn't important and you will feel its right when its time , you will get funny butterflies in your tummy and feel in love. Well wait till you do get a boyfriend you really like and go 4 it when your ready. Don't be embassed because a lot of girls AND BOYS are the same as you... and you never know it could happen tomorrow. If you go on goggle and search kissing tips you can find out how 2 if your embassed and feel as though you don't know how 2. but I can tell you something that is true.. snoging somebody is easier than washing your hands it just happens. Let your boyfriend lead! Xxx good luck and don't worry! Its natural!Quote:
Originally Posted by Duran Duran luver
Uh cukecake she's 13 and hasn't been kissed yet!?
Anyway!
When the time is right you'll know!
I agree with 2 people here!
Hoped i helped!
Peace!
If having boy drama..ask ineed2know.
As far as boys being very shy. Boys do not like rejection. They fear it. Many boys or even men are so shy it takes the girl to approach them. It should not always be the boy to make the approach anyway.
As far as being anxious for kissing. Just because all of your friends have experienced this. Does not mean you have to. When the right time comes it will happen naturally. If you force it the experience will not be as memorable. Old saying, if your friends jump off a bridge would you too?
My personal experience. First kiss was at between 6 and 7 years old. Now I am married to that girl I kissed in school.
Everybody has there own experience, make your unique.
Joe
I have been kissed before and there's nothing special but + boys are so slow and they sometimes are shy to express there feelings the ones that do turn out to be rude and mean freaks! Just take you time and you'll be fine
Don't worry about it, there will be that perfect guy and there will be that perfect kiss. Don't rush it just wait, because if you rush it it might not be how you hoped.
If You Like A Boy And You Know He Likes You Why Don't You Say Something To Him... ask Him To A Movie Or Something... just Because He Is Shy Doesn't Mean You Have To Be..!
Don't rush yourself, you have your first kiss when your ready, you will know when it's the right time because everything will fall into place, don't worry about it because it will happen when your readyQuote:
Originally Posted by Duran Duran luver
Just so you know, looking for lasting relationships at your age is pointless. Even if you stick with someone through High School, only 1% of Women marry their (at the risk of sounding corny) High School Sweetheart.
My first kissed sucked.
I didn't exactly like the guy, and he like slicked my whole face with saliva.
It was quite disgusting.
I say find the right person before you go macking on other guys.
Who knows, if you actually like the guy you kiss you could maybe build something more.
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