Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a year now. About 6 months ago we started having sex, and she doesn't feel anything. We have had sex countless times and the only time she feels anything id if she goes on top. Does anyone know what could be wrong?

How old are the two of you?

Most of the time, some women only get pleasure on top. I am not stating that as a fact by any means.

We are both 18going on 19

Is the first time for her?

I was her first but we have had it many times

And she still feels nothing? Does she feel it every time she is on top or just sometimes? Maybe you should go from there and then work on other positions once she learns how to control her emotions and gets the feeling more.

Is she able to give HERSELF an orgasm?

She is unable to give herself a orgasm

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i was her first but we have had it many times

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she is unable to give herself a orgasm

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That's where she needs to start, then.

For most women, arousal is MENTAL. A lot of younger women cannot relax enough (even with themselves!) to achieve orgasm.

It does not surprise me that she has the most sensation when she's on top. That gives her more sensation on her CLITORIS, which is where most of the nerve endings are for women.

I suggest she talk to her gynecologist to start with, but that what she is going through is probably perfectly normal, and she just needs to relax about it.

What does it mean when u can't feel sex

Hello Kimbaby,

You responded to a 3 years old thread it is closed by now, always chck the date on the left top corner before you respond, Thanks.

John