Hello everyone, I really hope one of you can help me, I'm wondering if I'm really pregnant, Im 19 years old and six months ago I lost a baby already; because I didn't know that I was pregnant ( I drank lots of caffeine, I worked out excessively, I had a couple of drinks here and there) this was very shocking to me, after that I have never been the same girl. I still cry every now and then. Im regular for 35 days I had sex 4 times last month, 2 of the 4 times were not ovulation periods and 2 of them were but I used protection (condoms) My period was due today( nov/02/2009) and I had some very light spotting this morning and some cramps but then it all went away. My breasts have been hurting for like 2 weeks now and I've been having some on and off cramps, no I don't feel tired at all and I have been eating normally. I have been feeling fatigue here and there but it is all after walking or running ( as I said before I work out a lot) I've been stressing a lot lately because I don't know if I'm really pregnant ( I was thinking I was since the moment I felt my first cramp 2 weeks before period was due) Anyway I was just wondering if its possible to have implantation bleeding the day your period is due or even that if that was even a period. The blood was very light brown and I just noticed it after I went to the bathroom this morning and it was there for about 30 minutes or so and then it went away. If you know anything about the unusual spotting and any reason that could have caused it, please be my guest. I don't think I can bare another loss. Please and thanks

I think the most quick and easiest way to solve your worries would be to do a pregnancy test.

Good Luck

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Im 19 years old and six months ago I lost a baby already; because I didn't know that I was pregnant ( I drank lots of caffeine, I worked out excessively, I had a couple of drinks here and there) this was very shocking to me, after that I have never been the same girl.

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These activities are not necessarily what caused the miscarriage, so please don't be too hard on yourself. Miscarriages are unfortunately common (I've had 3) and they are almost always due to chromosomal or hormonal issues that you cannot control.

Since you are due for your period, now is the time to take a home pregnancy test with first morning urine (follow directions carefully).

If you continue to have sex with only condoms as birth control, start taking prenatal vitamins daily. All fertile-age women should take them because the benefits to your child start BEFORE conception.

Thanks to you both I really appreciate it for trying to help me figure it all out. I just got my regular period flow this morning and well I'm having mixed emotions I was getting used to the idea that I was pregnant but well things happen for a reason and people say I'm too young. Maybe someday I'll have a beautiful healthy baby =)

19 is still young. It seems like it's for the best that you don't have a baby just yet. Why not start using because all the time and enjoy some more of your youth? Then later you can decide when you actually want to try and get pregnant. Because isn't 100% effective, but the chances are a lot less with because than w/o.

Yes, 19 is too young to have kids.
I would know. I have two. Please
Live life all you can, enjoy it to.

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Originally Posted by pinky84

Thanks to you both I really appreciate it for trying to help me figure it all out. I just got my regular period flow this morning and well im having mixed emotions I was getting used to the idea that I was pregnant but well things happen for a reason and people say im too young. Maybe someday I'll have a beautiful healthy baby =)

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Someday I'm sure you will. In the mean time, protect yourself and enjoy your youth :)