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  • Nov 2, 2009, 07:35 AM
    compuguy
    My girlfriend's ex boyfriend is a real idiot!
    Hey can any 1 give me some advice on my girlfriend's ex boyfriend plzzzzzzzzz.

    You see the thing is they have been dating for about 2 years and now they share a child with each other. After they broke up about 9 months ago, I met this sexy looking woman and I'm in a relationship with her at this moment. We have been going out 4 about 3 months now and the thing is her ex doesn't want to accept the fact that she dumped him and moved on with her life. Now I'm the 1 getting frustrated of her boyf always calling her and telling her that he loves her. Can anybody help because I'm so fed up with his crap that I'm going to make him disappear 4 eva
  • Nov 2, 2009, 08:14 AM
    Imabadman

    Well your girlfriend is the one that has to deal with this not you. She needs to put an end to it. If she doesn't... well then you need to consider that maybe she's not totally with you.

    Also... please drop the 'text speak'.
  • Nov 2, 2009, 08:20 AM
    Romefalls19

    You have to understand he will be in her life for the next 18 years, deal with that first. Also, simply tell her she needs to inform him that he needs to back off.
  • Nov 2, 2009, 08:47 AM
    I wish

    Since they have a child, they willl be connected together for a long time. You need to accept that she comes with a lot of baggage. You're the one who decided to be in this relationship. She comes in a package, so the question is, can you accept this?

    As for the ex boyfriend, it's up to her to send him a clear message that she's no longer interested in a relationship with him. Her ex boyfriend is just going to have to find a way to respect her wishes.

    As for you, you should just focus on the relationship and not worry about her ex boyfriend. Let her handle him.
  • Nov 2, 2009, 06:04 PM
    talaniman
    Forget this baby daddy drama.
    Quote:

    I'm going to make him disappear 4 eva
    That's really going to make you look good, especially to the cops.
  • Nov 2, 2009, 07:34 PM
    Imabadman

    Talaniman they wouldn't let me spread the love to you again but you said it straight for him, "Thats really gonna make you look good, especially to the cops."

    Stupid is as stupid does. Or says...

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