So I'm not sure if I have found my balance on how much to call my re acquired boyfriend. Lately its only been once a day so that I don't feel like I'm bugging him too much. Do you think this is enough or not enough? Also, when I talked to him yesterday he said he missed me (which he hadn't said in a couple days) and he asked what we were doing on new years (which is still like two months away). I feel that both these things are good things that were said to me. What do you think? Thanks! :rolleyes:

It healthy to keep it balanced.
If you call him Mon, let him call you on Tues, and so on and so forth!

You two are a couple... there is nothing wrong with asking him what he likes/doesnt like on terms of contact frequency. The concept of asking the other (communication) is a great skill to develop in your relationship.. go for it!