Hi all,

This is Max 25 year male from china, I had girl friend before and we are very happy with each other in sex relation but she left me now due to some resons but now I got a new girl frind since from four month, my problem is I can't make her fully calm in sex when ever we do sex I can't make the sex long term as I didt it before.

Advice what the step should I follow to regain the streath of long term sex.

Best regards
Max

Hello.

Have you ever heard of the stop start method.

The basic principles are... you begin sex,you stop,cuddle or talk,then begin again,slowly..

Continue like this until you are happy with the length of time you are taking.

Try making love, and not just sex. Take your time.

Making Her calm?? She is excited, and you really want her to be excited, so she is having fun. Do try the start and stop method. Sounds pretty normal.

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Originally Posted by bronzebabe

Making Her calm?? She is excited, and you really want her to be excited, so she is having fun. Do try the start and stop method. Sounds pretty normal.

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I think he meant the c- word for orgasm.

Here's a thought, Max. Try playing until she reaches a climax. A second one during coitus is easier to achieve than a first, I've been told.

Get a copy of "The Sensuous Man". It will teach you new things.

Your penis is not the only "tool" you can use to satisfy your lady.

Are you using condoms? I hope so. They make condoms here that have a de-sensitizing cream INSIDE of them as to prolong sex.

Also, the second time around lasts longer than the first.

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Originally Posted by jmjoseph

Get a copy of "The Sensuous Man". It will teach you new things.

Your penis is not the only "tool" you can use to satisfy your lady.

Are you using condoms? I hope so. They make condoms here that have a de-sensitizing cream INSIDE of them as to prolong sex.

Also, the second time around lasts longer than the first.

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Yes for sure I'm using condoms! Can I use some kind of Medicine to make my strenth strong ? Does it will not effect in sex life as I was just 25 year old.

Please advice.

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Originally Posted by max47

yes for sure i m using condoms !! can I use some kind of Medicine to make my strenth strong ? does it will not effect in sex life as i was just 25 year old.

please advice.

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Part of this is excitement of a new partner.

As you stay with her longer the excitement wears off and you natually will be able to perform longer. No two women are the same so use the time to get to know what she likes and dislikes. If you spend less time thinking about how it feels for you, and more time paying attention to her, and how she responds, you will find it easier to last longer. AND have the benefit of making it better for her by learning how to understand and respond to her personal needs. And those as I have said... will be different with every woman. Similar maybe... but never exactly the same.