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  • Oct 30, 2009, 01:54 PM
    boatbuilder
    Fing with my mind
    I'm just wondering what others think. Last night my ex girlfriend of a year started flirting with me and had me walk her to her apt from the bar. She was pretty hammered and she said a few things that are kind of mind s. 1st she said she needed somebody and I told her she has a boy friend. She told me her boy friend doesn't care about her. I then asked her why she brought me to her place because I found it inappropriate, she said you know why. I really don't know what she means. After that I put her to bed with a glass of water.

    WHAT AM I TO THINK?
  • Oct 30, 2009, 02:00 PM
    artlady

    I know you have heard the song "blame it on the alcohol"!

    That is what I would do and not read more into it.

    There may still be some residual feelings left over from when you were a couple but I would not take the word of someone who is hammered.

    Its good to see you took the higher road and the only thing you gave her was a glass of water.

    Then again maybe she just wanted the comfort of someone familiar to take away her pain from her uncaring BF. You happened to fit the bill.

    Only way to know for certain is to ask!
  • Oct 30, 2009, 02:01 PM
    Alty

    She wanted a booty call, that's all.

    She was feeling a bit neglected, drunk, and you were there.
  • Oct 30, 2009, 02:31 PM
    Romefalls19

    You were the physical warm body she wanted, nothing more
  • Oct 30, 2009, 02:36 PM
    talaniman

    Don't ever trip out about what a drunk says or does. You did the right thing though, seeing her home safe, and in bed... ALONE!

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