I am a married women and have had a friend for 30 yrs and the spouse flipped out and won't let us be friends anymore. She took me off his Facebook and sent me an email pretending to be him. It was clear it wasn't she used a name he never goes by and used really weird lingo that he wouldn't use. We live 2000 miles from each other and rarely communicate. I am hurt and don't know what to do, how can I just stop being friends with someone that Ive known since childhood. I would never do that to my spouse. That is not healthy. It is posessive, and sad. I am worried about my friend. I am guessing he hid me from her the last 7 years they have been married. How should I perceed?

For your friends sake, you back off and don't add stress to his craz... er... concerned, and insecure wife. He sounds like he has enough problems. Married men have the same problems too!