My son who was living with his mother was murdered in front of his house (drive by shooting). Now, the mother is still asking me to pay backsupport. I'm going through a tough time as is with his death plus I got laid off from work and having a hard time paying what was left. Do I still have to pay backsupport? I'm not sure if this is part of the law or if she is still just trying to get more money out of me that I can't afford.