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  • Oct 28, 2009, 11:11 AM
    ItsOnlyMe01420
    He Came In Me 3 Times, Periods Early? Hmmm?
    Okay Well I Actually Feel Pretty Stupid Writing This On Here But Im Very Curious.
    Well My Boyfriend And I Have Sex All The Time And Just This Month He Came In Me 3 Times. I Normally Don't Start My Period Until Like The 1st Of The Month But I Happened To Start My Period Today. I Thought For Sure I Got Knocked Up, Because I Was Extremely Tired, Always Upset To My Stomach, Just Felt Very Wore Out But I Haven't Done Anything! And Normally The First Day Of My Period Is VERY Heavy But This Time Its Not Heavy At All. I Was Just Wondering If I Could Be Pregnant?
  • Oct 28, 2009, 11:14 AM
    Just Dahlia
    If you are not using protection there is always a possibility, is there a reason why you are not?:confused:
  • Oct 28, 2009, 11:15 AM
    redhed35

    do a pregnancy test..

    having sex = babies.

    repeat the test if its negative and/or go to your doctor.

    you may also be at risk from STI's and STD's.
  • Oct 28, 2009, 11:27 AM
    ItsOnlyMe01420
    We Have Been Together For About a Year And I Just Got Tested For Stds And Aids An The Whole 9 Yards And Im Completely Clean And I Made Him Do The Same Thing So Were Both Clean, An I Kind of Want to Have A Baby And He Wants Me To Have His Baby...
  • Oct 28, 2009, 11:33 AM
    Just Dahlia
    You might want to re-think the baby, a year is not that long of a time and we are talking about a human life here.
  • Oct 28, 2009, 11:35 AM
    redhed35
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ItsOnlyMe01420 View Post
    We Have Been Together For About a Year And I Just Got Tested For Stds And Aids An The Whole 9 Yards And Im Completely Clean And I Made Him Do The Same Thing So Were Both Clean, An I Kinda Wanna Have A Baby And He Wants Me To Have His Baby...

    So you can afford a baby?

    I was just wondering what age you both were,if you don't mind saying.
  • Oct 28, 2009, 11:36 AM
    ItsOnlyMe01420
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Just Dahlia View Post
    You might want to re-think the baby, a year is not that long of a time and we are talking about a human life here.

    Yeah I Know That's Very Understandable But I Know If I Had A Baby It Would Defenitly Have A Father And Mother In His/Her Life Even If Were Not Together.
  • Oct 28, 2009, 11:38 AM
    ItsOnlyMe01420
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by redhed35 View Post
    so you can afford a baby?

    i was just wondering what age you both were,if you dont mind saying.

    Lol Well...
    I Know This Is Going to Wow You...
    Im 19 And He Is 34..
    But I Really Didn't Post This To Be Lectured..
    I Was Just Very Curious...
  • Oct 28, 2009, 11:44 AM
    redhed35
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ItsOnlyMe01420 View Post
    Lol Well....
    I Know This Is Gonna Wow You...
    Im 19 And He Is 34..
    But I Really Didnt Post This To Be Lectured..
    I Was Just Very Curious...

    I'm not wowed..

    My advice is to go to the doctor to get confirmation.
  • Oct 28, 2009, 11:45 AM
    Just Dahlia
    This is not a lecture, but in my opinion the 34 year old is not working with a full deck. I would count yourself lucky to be NOT pregnant and start using protection.:rolleyes:
  • Oct 28, 2009, 12:04 PM
    justcurious55

    You "kinda want a baby"? Kind of doesn't sound very confident. And it makes me wonder if you really are ready to have a baby. Do you really want to spend nine months pregnant? And then the next 18 years taking care of a child. Getting up in the middles of the night for diaper changes and feedings. And then school, and getting a kid to and from school, being involved in school activities. Saving up to help them get through college hopefully. And what about you going to school? I'm not trying to lecture. But the "kinda" worries me. Have you really thought this through?

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