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  • Oct 28, 2009, 05:59 AM
    bikeman09
    RCIA and Communion
    I am attending RCIA classes at a local parish and I am little confused about the Holy Communion process. I have been married before outside of the Catholic Church and have cases in front of the tribunal for annulment. Will I be permitted to take communion during the Easter vigil with my class? I have read so many varying views on this.
  • Oct 28, 2009, 06:12 AM
    RickJ

    Speak to the parish Priest. I believe that he will tell you that you cannot receive the Eucharist in the Church until the annulment is confirmed, however there may be more details that he will ask you about that leads to another answer.

    I urge you to ask the Priest and NOT the leader of the RCIA program (unless the leader of RCIA is the Priest).

    Be prepared for an answer you do not want to hear. Be patient.
  • Oct 30, 2009, 12:05 AM
    arcura
    bikeman09,
    RickJ gave you some very good advicem including that you should be patient.
    It is a virtue that brings great spiritual rewards in time.
    Peace and kindness,
    Fred
  • Oct 30, 2009, 10:33 AM
    gromitt82
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by bikeman09 View Post
    I am attending RCIA classes at a local parish and I am little confused about the Holy Communion process. I have been married before outside of the Catholic Church and have cases in front of the tribunal for annulment. Will I be permitted to take communion during the Easter vigil with my class? I have read so many varying views on this.

    I would say you should consult your Parish priest (in confession, perhaps) and he will tell you what you have to do.

    In principle, you cannot take the Communion until you are "clean" of all your sins which you get through the absolution granted by the priest in confession. Once you have his blessing you can take the Holy Communion as often and as many times you wish -without any need of further confessions- provided you really feel sorry or repent of whetever faults you may have committed in the interim. Hoever, should you commit some serious sin you should confess it again to be forgiven by the priest.

    Gromitt82
  • Oct 30, 2009, 06:09 PM
    arcura
    gromitt82, You are right about that.
    Fred
  • Oct 30, 2009, 07:52 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    Are you remarried, if you are divorced and not remarried and not living with someone, then the church merely views you are married still, it would be getting remarried, since that is considered living in sin.

    So really not enough info to give a good answer
  • Oct 30, 2009, 09:09 PM
    arcura
    Fr_Chuck,
    Agreed!
    More information is needed
    Fred
  • Oct 31, 2009, 08:44 AM
    gromitt82
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    Are you remarried, if you are divorced and not remarried and not living with someone, then the church merely views you are married still, it would be getting remarried, since that is considered living in sin.

    So really not enough info to give a good answer

    I am afraid I have to insist that the only one to give her proper advice is her Parish priest ONCE SHE HAS FULLY EXPLAINED HER SITUATION in Confession.

    Gromitt82
  • Oct 31, 2009, 09:22 PM
    arcura
    gromitt82,
    Agreed.
    Fred
  • Nov 1, 2009, 08:33 AM
    gromitt82
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by arcura View Post
    gromitt82,
    Agreed.
    Fred

    Thanks, Fred. Sometimes, we try to complicate matters but most of the times, the best solution is the simplest one.

    Gromitt82
  • Nov 1, 2009, 05:26 PM
    arcura
    gromitt82,
    Very true.
    Often that is the case.
    Peace and kindness,
    Fred
  • Nov 1, 2009, 06:23 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    Well actually no, the Parish priest sadly at times are wrong or bias on some issues, I could go on and on with issues I have seen local priests do over the years.

    In real terms, the Bishop is the real say but then the rules of the church is the final say. A person who is the innocent party in a divorce, who remains single, does not marry or move in with anyone and remains chaste, has nothing to confess since they have not sinned in this issue
  • Nov 1, 2009, 10:29 PM
    arcura
    Fr_Chuck,
    Thanks for that explanation.
    Peace and kindness,
    Fred
  • Nov 3, 2009, 04:34 PM
    bikeman09
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    Are you remarried, if you are divorced and not remarried and not living with someone, then the church merely views you are married still, it would be getting remarried, since that is considered living in sin.

    So really not enough info to give a good answer

    I am Divorced and not remarried and live by myself.
  • Nov 3, 2009, 10:27 PM
    arcura
    bikeman09,
    Thanks for that information.
    It is important.
    Peace and kindness.
    Fred

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