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  • Nov 5, 2006, 05:03 PM
    Canja1211
    Is this a bad sign? Am I not good enough?
    OK, this probably isn't good but I don't know... sometimes I go on my boyfriends account on myspace, and he doesn't know it, and I went through his inbox and I found out that he sent another girl a message saying she was cute, and how if she wanted to talk he have her his screen name. I don't know if I should be worried, but I got upset.

    Was it bad for me to get upset about it? And was it bad for me to go check his myspace?

    I really don't know, but I'm scared that maybe I'm not good enough for him, and I love you more than anything and I'm scared, I'm just scared:(
  • Nov 5, 2006, 05:14 PM
    gansada
    Well it was so wrong to go on to his account.

    But on the on other hand you are his girlfriend.

    You shouldn't be worried.

    Cute might meant just HER apperance.

    She might be a girl that flirst with a lot of guys.

    Or an attatude of a *****.

    Maybe you knida need to maybe step up your game.

    But don't do anything you'll regret.

    Yea, in a way it was bad to get upset over that.

    Have you talked to him if he ever chat with any other girls?

    Myspace is a thing that messes up guys n gurls heads.

    It's not what he says. Its what he does to u, and what he does. (mainly)

    Peace!

    Hoped i helped!
  • Nov 6, 2006, 02:10 AM
    blondieinCAN
    I dated a guy that was cheating on me and I didn't know at the time but I was so worried, and snoopy. Then I dated a guy I totally trust would never cheat and I am not a snooper! So who healed me of this!? I think if you are snooping you are afraid he will cheat, but is it because deep down you know he would, or its happened a lot to you and he is just another poor victim!
  • Nov 6, 2006, 03:02 AM
    Krs
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Canja1211
    ok, this prolly isnt good but idk...sometimes i go on my boyfriends account on myspace, and he doesnt know it, and i went through his inbox and i found out that he sent another girl a message saying she was cute, and how if she wanted to talk he have her his screen name. idk if i should be worried, but i got upset.

    was it bad for me to get upset about it? and was it bad for me to go check his myspace??

    i really dont know, but im scared that maybe im not good enought for him, and i love you more than anything and im scared, im just scared:(

    Its not like you can ask him now, because he will just ask you how you know..
    Then the tables will turn and he will blame you for checking his a/c.

    Why did you look at his a/c in the first place?

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