My friends boyfriend's friend likes me but I don't like him.. help!

I don't know how to let him down gentley without upsetting my friend?
And my friend is always with her boyfriend and sometimes his friend is there a lot as well, so it will be awkward between us next time I see him:/
Help pleasee! I just don't know what to do:(
Maybe I should go out with him anyway because that's what my friend wants, she's been talking about double dates and all that, but I just don't like him in that way..
Any advice would be much appreciated!
Thank you xxx

Tell your friend and then tell him.

The only way to deal with this is honesty. You can say it in an unhurtful way.

Just tell him you'd rather be friends, that you enjoy his friendship and like hanging out with him, but you don't want a relationship with him.

Honesty is the best policy.

Thankyouu!
I think I will tell my friend how I feel I'm just worried how she will react
Thankss xx

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Originally Posted by sian15

thankyouu!
i think i will tell my friend how i feel im just worried how she will react
thankss xx

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It's not her choice who you date. Sure, it would be cool if you liked her boyfriends friend so you could double date, but still, if you don't feel attracted to him then there's nothing you can do about it. It's either there or it isn't.

If she's a true friend then she'll understand. :)

Great Advice Alty.

Don't date a guy just to make your friend happy. It would end to badly. It would all be a lie and you would end up hurting him if he found out the truth. You will find a guy someday that you can double date on with your friend.