I have been wanting to ejaculate inside my girlfriend for quite sometime now. Lately I have just been pulling out. It is something I have never done before and neither has she. She has been on the depmovera (spl) shot for over 5 months now. Does anyone think it is safe to do without getting pregnant?

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Originally Posted by Fixer12

I have been wanting to ejaculate inside my girlfriend for quite sometime now. Lately i have just been pulling out. It is something i have never done before and neither has she. She has been on the depmovera (spl) shot for over 5 months now. Does anyone think it is safe to do without getting pregnant?

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Before you pull out, you have been "ejaculating" semen inside her. Pulling out is absolutely NOT birth control. Being inside her means you are having intercourse, and she is no longer a virgin.

There's an RN on site who can answer your because shot question. I will PM her to do so.

Fortunately DepoProvera is one of the strongest forms of birth control, but remember that no form of birth control is 100% effective.

The withdrawal method should not be confused with birth control as the penis lubricates itself prior to ejaculation and this lubrication contains sperm.

So pretty much there is no difference between pulling out and not in this instance?

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Originally Posted by Fixer12

so pretty much there is no difference between pulling out and not in this instance?

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Exactly, just be sure you are ready to be a father. Abstinence is the only form of birth control that is 100% effective.

There is a "diference" the odds are less if you pull out. Let say you put a gun to your head, one time you put five bullets in a six shooter, the other time you put one bullet in.

But even on birth conrol they can get pregnant. To be safer, you should also use a condom and the birth control

As was said... even with two forms of birth control... its still a risk.

Better be ready for parenthood even more using one form only. It does happen a startling percentage of times.

The most important thing is, is she ready for you to do this?

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Originally Posted by jmjoseph

The most important thing is, is she ready for you to do this?

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I wouldn't say that... First I would say are you both ready to be parents... right now. Because that ups the odds a great deal... (he isn't using a condom), and there are too many other meds that will render female birth control ineffective. Antibiotics being just one.

Seems too few young people are ignoring the extensive sex ed information the schools are so set on spending so much time on these days.

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Originally Posted by jmjoseph

The most important thing is, is she ready for you to do this?

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It's pretty apparent that she is ready. Depo is one heck of a strong form of birth control.