I want to set up a donation for my familly and to help other famillys

Please be more speciic - are you looking to set up a charity for the purpose of helping families in need, and for which you would solicit donations? Is there a specific family you have in mind to help? Or do you want to help class of families, such as homeless families in a particular city?

Before going to far I would suggest that the easiest way for you to assist families is to investigate opportunities through established charities in your area, such as your church.