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  • Oct 21, 2009, 08:55 AM
    aaronswife20
    2 months late HELP!
    Okay the last time I had my period was in August. August 24th to be exact. My husband and I had sex right before I ovulated and during the correct time I was ovulating. I didn't get my period for the month of September. So I went to the doctor and the urine test they said came back negative. Its now the month of October and no sign of my period. Nothing! I need help what should I do? Thanks for any response!
  • Oct 21, 2009, 09:08 AM
    Alty

    Take another test, either a home pregnancy test or a blood test at your doctors.

    It could have been too early to detect last time.
  • Oct 21, 2009, 09:13 AM
    aaronswife20
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Altenweg View Post
    Take another test, either a home pregnancy test or a blood test at your doctors.

    It could have been too early to detect last time.

    Thanks so much! That really is helpful. It really is!
  • Oct 21, 2009, 11:53 AM
    katt86

    Altenweg is correct I went through the same sort of thing. I had a period the beginning August and when I was next due one it did not come so I took a test straight away and it came back negative, I then took another one 3 weeks later and it came back positive and I am now nearly 12 weeks pregnant. So that could be the case with you.
  • Oct 21, 2009, 12:16 PM
    aaronswife20

    Katt86 thank you so so much! I have not taken another test because I honestly thought that the doctors is the most accurate so I was like whatever and didn't even bother taking one! But is there anyway I can get in contact with u in case I have any questions. Like do you have a myspace or something?
  • Oct 21, 2009, 12:23 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by aaronswife20 View Post
    Katt86 thank you so so much! I have not taken another test because I honestly thought that the doctors is the most accurate so I was like whatever and didn't even bother taking one! But is there anyway I can get in contact with u in case I have any questions. Like do you have a myspace or something?

    Why not keep your questions on this thread?
  • Oct 21, 2009, 12:29 PM
    aaronswife20

    I wanted too ask her things because if I am pregnant her and I would not be too far away from one another in pregnancy wise that's all. Do you have any children?
  • Oct 21, 2009, 12:30 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by aaronswife20 View Post
    I wanted too ask her things because if I am preggo her and I would not be too far away from one another in pregnancy wise that's all. Do you have any children?

    Yes, I have two.

    We have a OB nurse on this site, she's wonderful. If you have any questions we're here to answer them. That's what we do. :)

    First find out if you're pregnant, then go from there. :)
  • Oct 21, 2009, 01:09 PM
    KARIEMELIA
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Altenweg View Post
    Why not keep your questions on this thread?

    OUCH! I am not trying to be rude or start anything Alty, but maybe she just wanted some one on one information. I don't know, I am just saying because when I found out I was pregnant.. I only wanted to talk to a select few about things before everything was 100 percent okay!
  • Oct 21, 2009, 01:52 PM
    aaronswife20
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by KARIEMELIA View Post
    OUCH! I am not trying to be rude or start anything Alty, but maybe she just wanted some one on one information. I don't know, I am just saying because when I found out I was pregnant.. I only wanted to talk to a select few about things before everything was 100 percent okay!

    Thanks karimelia that's exactly what I was trying too do I didn't mean to hurt anyone's feelings you know!
  • Oct 21, 2009, 02:41 PM
    KARIEMELIA
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by aaronswife20 View Post
    Thanks karimelia that's exactly what I was trying too do I didn't mean to hurt anyones feelings you know!

    NO problem. I wasn't trying to start anything with anyone... I just could kind of tell that by your posts. If you are pregnant, congrats in advance... I am 12 weeks pregnant with my first and it is both exciting and scary at the same time! :)
  • Oct 21, 2009, 03:02 PM
    J_9
    We keep all questions and answers on the board to insure accuracy.

    Hi... I'm J, the OB nurse.

    In reply to your question, I have to agree with the others. Take a HPT using first morning urine. If that comes back negative as well, then it may be time for a blood test.
  • Oct 21, 2009, 03:14 PM
    Alty

    Aaronswife and Karmiella;

    Ask Me Help Desk - FAQ: Terms of Service, FAQ and How To Use This Site

    See #12
  • Oct 21, 2009, 03:38 PM
    stormey44

    I agree take another hpt and let us know what it said and if so congrats
  • Oct 21, 2009, 04:18 PM
    aaronswife20

    Altenweg you didn't have to be a about it we were stating our opinions and its better NOT too follow the rules all the time. Thanks for your help before but its no longer needed nor wanted. So stop writing me. Pull something up on that!
  • Oct 21, 2009, 04:27 PM
    aaronswife20
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by KARIEMELIA View Post
    NO problem. I wasn't trying to start anything with anyone... I just could kind of tell that by your posts. If you are pregnant, congrats in advance... I am 12 weeks pregnant with my first and it is both exciting and scary at the same time! :)

    Really? So when did you find out you were pregnant exactly I always thought I couldn't get pregnant. My ex fiancée and I always tried for a baby and we had no luck and my husband and I have been having unprotected sex for a little over a year and I never ended up pregnant. Than now this! So I do hope so. Was your pregnancy planned or unexcepted? :)
  • Oct 21, 2009, 04:36 PM
    danielnoahsmommy

    Please stop being rude, we are here to help. An apology is warrented now!
  • Oct 21, 2009, 04:42 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by aaronswife20 View Post
    Altenweg you didn't have to be a about it we were stating our opinions and its better NOT too follow the rules all the time. Thanks for your help before but its no longer needed nor wanted. So stop writing me. Pull something up on that!

    Don't follow the rules, don't continue on the site. Your choice.

    You should have read all the site rules and regulations before you started posting. I guess you also missed the part about this being a public site. Once you post your thread is public property. You don't get to censor who answers your thread, so no, I won't go away, I have the right to post here.

    What's going to happen when your child is a teenager and asks if he can drive drunk or smoke pot? Are you going to tell him that it's okay not to follow the rules all the time?
  • Oct 21, 2009, 04:50 PM
    aaronswife20
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Altenweg View Post
    Don't follow the rules, don't continue on the site. Your choice.

    You should have read all the site rules and regulations before you started posting. I guess you also missed the part about this being a public site. Once you post your thread is public property. You don't get to censor who answers your thread, so no, I won't go away, I have the right to post here.

    What's going to happen when your child is a teenager and asks if he can drive drunk or smoke pot? Are you going to tell him that it's okay not to follow the rules all the time?

    Maybe, maybe not. If I do than I guess that will have too be my problem not yours. And I'm sure your not perfect and you've broken rules before. So Stop acting like you never have. And what I did was not INTENTIONAL it was a mistake! I don't see why your making it such a big dang deal seriously get over yourself and grow up. I have better things too do than sit around and argue with someone that I never even meet before in MY life. Less alone argue with you. And like I said to karimelia I was not trying too start a fight or hurt anyone's feelings and you've tooken it and blown it out of the water. I'm done. Have a nice night
  • Oct 21, 2009, 04:55 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by aaronswife20 View Post
    Maybe, maybe not. If I do than I guess that will have too be my problem not yours. And I'm sure your not perfect and you've broken rules before. So Stop acting like you never have. And what I did was not INTENTIONAL it was a mistake! I don't see why your making it such a big dang deal seriously get over yourself and grow up. I have better things too do than sit around and argue with someone that I never even meet before in MY life. Less alone argue with you. And like I said to karimelia I was not trying too start a fight or hurt anyones feelings and you've tooken it and blown it out of the water. I'm done. Have a nice night

    You started the argument, not me.

    I pointed out the rules so you'd know. I wasn't rude about it, mean about it, or condescending about it. I simply pointed out why your request was not okay.

    You said it was a mistake, that's fine, we all make them. All I did was tell you that you made a mistake, in a nice way. Now you're all pi$$y about it.

    I have grown up dear, maybe it's time for you to take your own advice.

    I didn't blow it out of the water, you did. Don't you realize that?

    I was willing to help, but now you're on your own. I'm sure a few people may respond to your post, because not everyone reads the previous posts, but most people, if they're smart, won't bother to give advice to someone that doesn't seem to want it.

    Good luck to you. I hope you grow up before you become a mom.

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