Hi Friends.. please help me.. I had a girl friend... We started in 1999 when we were in school(she was 17 yrs and I was 18yrs).. the was girl is intelligent , beautiful and mature.. My father got retired and I moved to other place.. we used to meet after few months.. till 2007 I used to be happy with her though we hardly got a chance to meet.. I started working in 2005 and got promoted in 2007... I was trying for defence however was not able to get through due to medicals.. I was frustrated as it was our mutual dream.. After that I slowly stopped talking to her... Though I always missed her.. but I don't know I stopped answering her calls... After that I used to ask her well being from a common friend.. she said Yes to a defence officer but broke up.. I never made any GF after that though I got many proposals.. I always use to feel her presence thogh she was not with me.. But now.. as I'm eligible for marriage and settled down well.. I want to marry that girl.. I have called her.. she was very angry and said she doesn't want any relation with me.. I have tried 2-3 times.. She never listens and say "Stop calling me".. I am really disappointed by my deeds.. but I never expected such a response..

Please friends.. help me out.. I don't want to lose her... Plzzzzzzzzzz advice:confused:

You stop taking her calls and then you years later decide you re ready to marry her?She however is angry and tells you to stop calling-wake up and smell the coffee,the way your thread reads you let this run down without any explanation,that would make a saint angry.
As for not losing her-you lost her years ago.
Let this go and move on.

You stop calling her, unless you want a visit from the police with restraining order in hand.

I think you have lost her and I think you need to regain some sort of composure. Walk away and realize this is over. Your behavior is borderline stalkerish. She has made herself clear so disappear before you lose yourself.

When emotions are high, you need to back off to calm down and gain some perspective. Otherwise, you're just freak everyone around you out.

Take a few steps back to allow your emotions to cool off, so that you feel more objective, before your revisit your situation.

You can't lose what you never had. Sorry guy, but your timing was lousy.